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Lauren Ayers's avatar

What do I think? Thanks for asking.

Starting with the Dems, since I was one for so long, I was surprised at how many of my leftwing friends never Questioned Authority when the CDC said a terrible Covid pandemic had arrived and, later, how indignant they were about people who refused the mRNA shots. Their denial was impervious to information about our marvelous natural immunity that, nevertheless, needs some tending (i.e. very good nutrition, making sure to be much more replete in vitamin D than the FDA feeble standards, etc). And currently, their denial is even greater than ever about the irrefutable, incredibly high rate of All Cause Deaths, as if they think it’s a character flaw to admit they were conned. Of course they were conned! By expert manipulators! (A big reason I could see it was that I’ve been a health nut for decades and had long ago learned to see through the claims of government agencies that are controlled by Big Ag and Big Junk Food and Big Pharma.)

Similarly, but with different excuses for their huffy anger, my Republican friends easily blame BLM, gay marriage, critical race theory, Pro Choice “baby murderers,” and/or immigrants for the ills of society. Really?! Black people or LGBTQ people have no legitimate complaints about structural bias and opportunities denied based on racist, sexist, or snobby stereotypes? A lima-bean size ball of cells matters more than a low-paid single mother of 4 or a college student whose birth control failed? We documented citizens don’t have any immigrants in our family tree? (These are why I couldn't just switch parties, hence I'm a Decline to State voter.)

Both “sides” have been fired up by canny newsmakers as being true patriots while the other side is heartless. Could fomenting strife be party leaders’ universal strategy for getting more campaign donation$ whenever their respective base$ are furiou$ at their opponent$?

Doesn’t that fury close the door to civil debates about how to cooperate in solving the many problems we face today?

Both sides are shooting themselves in the foot if they listen to their “leaders” (whether it’s the DNC or MAGA groups) because neither group has a clear majority. We need each other. Two MINORITIES can become one MAJORITY and get the changes that the 1% so effectively (and invisibly) blocks at every turn.

We need to listen to uncomfortable ideas with open minds, assuming the good intentions of our neighbors and relatives who disagree with us.

Step one: let’s quit the name-calling and put downs.

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Dr. K's avatar

As a long time subscriber, this is one of your best pieces. We have all been had, it appears. The more voices that see that, one hopes the better for us all. Thanks for writing this.

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